“They remember their dads saying, ‘I’m sorry I had to spank you but I still love you.’”.

But Dr. Don says what his clients are really craving is attention. “They call it their ‘mini-vacation’ — a chance to clear their mind and give up control to someone else, which allows them to regain their focus and return to court with a clear mind.” Age-wise, the men he spanks are well into adulthood, usually somewhere between 35 and 60. You missed the bonding between father and son, but I can provide you with something else: Discipline with a good ol’ fashioned spanking. It didn’t change a thing.”. I was getting so many people taking up my time that I figured if I raised the price to $50 it would discourage some people. It sounds a little like this: “Blood vessels rise up like goose bumps when you spank the ass,” he explains. When we were done, he put $100 down on my desk and said, ‘I’m a married man. “People use me as a confessional,” he says. I’m a heterosexual real dad looking for young men who grew up without a dad. By the third blow, tears are streaming down my face.

Endorphins! He keeps a steady pace — equal intervals between spanks — which occasionally syncs up with the steadfast tick of a grandfather clock in the corner.

There’s a homemade plywood paddle (“I call this the ‘beginner paddle’ because it’s thin”); the back end of a wooden bath brush (“very stingy”); a plastic kitchen utility spoon (“hitting the crack with this will send a sensation up through the balls”); a studded leather mallet (“weighted, for impact”); a collar (“for guys who want to feel like slaves and prefer to be on a leash”); a wooden cane (“my grandmother would go out and cut a switch like this from a tree”); and something called a “leather strapper” with a double tongue at the end (“this is what made the priest cry when I used it on him. “I know you can do better, and you know it too, don’t you?”, “You’re much better than your recent behavior.”, “We’re not going to let the way you’ve acted get in the way of who you are and who you can become!”, “I wouldn’t trade you for any spankee in the whole world.”.

Is this possible?

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All at once I realize how one might become addicted to spank therapy. C. Brian Smith writes hard-hitting gonzo features for MEL, whether it be training with a masturbation coach, receiving psycho corporal treatment from a spank therapist, or embarking on a week-long pleasure cruise with 75 Santa Clauses following their busy season. Why Has Disney Been Hiding Mickey Mouse’s Hot Older Sister?

“Smart and insightful reported features about modern masculinity.”, “@WeAreMel is phenomenal ... the best outlet covering digital culture today.”, “I just laughed out loud for a solid five minutes.”, “The rare men’s magazine that has taken upon itself to investigate masculinity, not enforce it. While neither an M.D. “I have three trial lawyers who come from the courthouses to get spanked on their lunch hour,” Dr. Don explains. I thought, Oh my god! nor a Ph.D. — nor any D, for that matter — Dr. Don explains he’s a “Spankologist,” or an expert in adult male spanking. I accept his embrace and rock back and forth a couple times. Then it was over, and they could move on with a clean slate.”, He directs me to crawl across his lap on the couch to assume the over-the-lap position that he explains is most common, since it allows for optimal control and connection to the spankee. It’s got to be a business transaction or I can’t do it.’ I thought, People will actually pay me to do this? “Most guys like to be hugged afterwards,” interrupts Dr. Don, arms outstretched. “Rubbing in between relaxes them and avoids bruising so the spanking can last longer.”. How the TikTok Aesthetic Is Changing the Face (And Body) of Porn, The ‘Stonks’ Meme Can Teach You a Lot About the Stock Market, The Instagram Economy of Phat-Ass White Girls, Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Prostate Play (But Were Afraid to Ask), Sorry, but ‘Requiem for a Dream’ Is a Terrible Movie. The Google, a 2005 Russian study from the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine, The Delirious Cult of Recreational Benadryl Users, The Definitive Oral History of Reddit GoneWild, Miles Davis vs. Malibu: How the LAPD Terrorized a Jazz Legend, Hunter Biden’s Dysfunction Is the Best Thing for His Dad’s Campaign, Ranking Every Al Pacino Movie by How Loudly He Yells, To Save Themselves, Restaurants Are Teaming Up in a Big Delicious Voltron, On a Bender in the Grecian Isle Where Himbos Reign Supreme, Hocus POTUS: The Witches Who Brewed Up a Hex on Trump Are Really Cackling Now, The Hypochondriac’s Guide to Flying During the Pandemic, The Doomed Cult of Vissarion, Russia’s Cop Turned Neo-Jesus, ‘American Murder: The Family Next Door’ Turns the Killing of Shanann Watts Into a Queasy Found-Footage Documentary, ‘The Life and Trials of Oscar Pistorius’ Grapples With a Murder Whose Motives Remain Murky, An Oral History of ‘The New Hollywood Squares’, An Oral History of ‘Steamed Hams,’ the Funniest ‘Simpsons’ Scene Ever Recorded, Ranking Popular Styles of Beer by How (Un)Healthy They Are, The Ballad of Cam Newton’s COVID-Plagued Comeback, This Pink Nike Sweatshirt Is About to Be Everywhere. “As long as you’re supporting them and they’re under your control on your dime — you whip their ass!”, Dr. Don says he raised a son on his own and spanked him so he wouldn’t get into trouble.

I’m naked and bent over the lap of a 72-year-old bald man named “Dr. (Other positions include: lying prone, bent over; under the spanker’s arm; through the legs of the spanker; and over the spanker’s shoulder, which Dr. Don explains represents that the spankee is his property.). About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Policy & Safety How YouTube works Test new features is brilliant.”, “sometimes I worry [MEL is] a psy-op meant just for me.”, This site is protected by reCAPTCHA.

2011年にスパンク復刻ブームの時に販売されていた イタリア版おはよう！スパンクのぬいぐるみです。 日本同様に80年代にもイタリアでもアニメが放送されていたので おなじみのキャラクターです。 スパンクがプリントされた様々なアイテムが発売されました。 When appropriate, Dr. Don infuses the spanking with positive reinforcement. They did something wrong, and their dad punished them. It gets Dr. Don’s a member of a growing community that practices Spank Therapy, or “spanking for wellness.” He’s written multiple books on the subject, including Behind Closed Doors: In the Secrecy of Darkness and Red Tail Bible, which defines spanking as “the act of striking the buttocks of another person with an open hand to cause temporary pain without producing physical injury.”, Drawing from more than 30 years of administering spank therapy and pointing to a 2005 Russian study from the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine on corporal punishment, Dr. Don says spanking’s therapeutic benefits include…, Naturally, spanking started out as a hobby for Dr. Don. “These are the implements we work with,” he explains. His clients almost all also work high-stress jobs. So I put an ad in the paper.”, The ad read: “My name is Don.

(Ironically, he was a good kid who never got spanked.).

After caressing my butt for 10 seconds “to create a connection and facilitate the male bonding process,” Dr. Don administers a series of four stinging slaps with his bare hand immediately followed with circular, soothing rubbing. He invites me to undress and join him in the other room. “I didn’t realize there were so many straight guys who were into getting spanked. He was in the Army and came home with a real mouth on him.

“If there’s anything curious you want to try just bring it with you.”, Each spanking session begins with a conversation, Dr. Don says, in which he learns why the client believes they deserve to be spanked. “The last time I spanked him was when he was 19. “I endorse spanking your fully grown children,” he enthuses.

After applying an additional coat of aloe to my pink bum, I gather my things and reach for the door. “They want someone to notice them, to give up control and be a kid again.”.

He takes it from there, explaining what they did wrong, why it’s wrong and what better choices they could’ve made before announcing that the consequence will be a spanking. To be clear, this isn’t for a sexual connection, but the real experience of being spanked. He said, ‘Holy Jesus, I just saw the face of God!’”). I said, ‘You’re disrespecting me.’ I grabbed him, threw him over my knee, pulled his underwear down and started whacking him right in front of his friends.”, My session starts in Dr. Don’s bedroom, where what appears to be a replica of the Mayflower is bookended by pastel portraits of his parents.

Don” who is spanking me with a bare hand in his second floor apartment in East L.A. What Is Ahegao, the Hentai Face That’s Suddenly Everywhere? Why American Homes Are Lined With Rusty Razor Blades, Big-Budget Quarantine Entertainment Mostly Sucks, LeBron James Is Making the Neckbeard Great Again, Why Your Boomer Parents Are Obsessed With Sarah Cooper, With ‘It’s the ___ for Me,’ Gen Z Advances the Art of Insult Comedy.

I think, blissfully riding the aforementioned “runner’s high.” But before I can get too cocky, I’m directed to bend over the desk and prepare for the strapper, the anticipation of which is by far the most unpleasant part of the session. While I’m struggling not to laugh — this is fucking absurd, after all — I note that the sting is becoming less and less unbearable with every spank. Without missing a beat, Dr. Don spreads my butt cheeks and begins rapidly slapping my asshole with a small plastic kitchen spoon which, as promised, sends a euphoric pulse of energy up through my balls. “Women’s asses aren’t good for spanking — they’re like saddle bags hanging over that you can’t contain,” he says. “I enjoyed spanking and began doing it for fun,” he says. Once it hits, however, the strapper lands with a delightful sting that causes my eyes to well up. What It’s Like to Pop Your Cherry on Reddit’s ‘Virginity Exchange’, The Sad, Strange Life and Death of Devonte Hart: The Crying Black Boy Who Famously Hugged a Cop, Hasan Piker Can Bro Down and Demolish Capitalism at the Same Time.

His gentle demeanor and hypnotic voice contrast with a gaunt, villainous gaze that seems to wander. It’s as if Mr. Rogers had broken bad instead of Walter White.

$20 an hour.”, “Man, did my phone light up like crazy!” he says. “A businessman was referred to me, and I spanked him — the whole nine yards. double points for managing to pull off that project with style and charm, not self-seriousness.”, “MEL f--kin rules they’re so consistently knocking it out of the park and everyone on the staff

“They revert back to what it was like when they were a kid.